Many of those singles nowadays, used to rush things out. We almost forgot what’s the real importance and essence of dating someone. Always remember that all relationships started on dating. Dating is actually where the relationship comes next. Some of us tell that dating is our relationship-builder. When we say builder, what’s the first thing came into your mind? “Step-by-step” method.
Tip # 1: Plot it! Making it on the spot makes no sense at all.
Always take note that before setting up a date or initiating someone on a date, make sure everything is settled. You know how to get on that place, how to park your car on the venue’s parking lot, reservations, menu, the main concept of the place you’ll be choosing. Always plan it in advance and make sure that you both agreed, set an expectation and make sure all things will flow on how it supposed to be.
Tip #2: Suitable
Suitable, Adaptable, Befitting, It’s just like mixing those sugar, spices and everything nice. Always make sure that both of you like what you are doing on a date. Be sure to be comfortable with each other. Doing something you both enjoy will have a good outcome, who knows? Next to it is the Love affair you’re waiting for?
Tip #3 : Awareness / Sympathy
If you’ve set a date on a weekday or weeknight, be sure not to reserve on a cinema that’s on the last filming like 11 in the evening! Be reminded that never make your date be anxious on your date. The less anxious your date is, the more he or she will notice how thoughtful and caring you are towards her/him.
Tip #4: Adoration or Approbation
Always treat your dates like a gold or a princess that’s really untouchable. Be careful about every physical action you’ll be doing. One single mistake because of manhandling him or her will result in an instant farewell. Don’t rush, enjoy every date you have with her or him!
Tip #5: Understanding / Open your ears
Listen on what she/he is saying. Letting your date feels that you listen and know them better at the end of your date will make them feel you both are compatible till the end.
Tip #6: Shine bright! Optimistic is a MUST!
The date is not only eating together for dinner, watching film together, walking at the park. Remember that you need to speak and to have a conversation with your date to let you both know each other deeper than it was before. Never ever as in even one per cent of discussing your exes or previous relationship. Focus on the positive topics like favourites, habits and so on, make sure to bring her/him to some places that are really romantic like watching the sunset while chatting, or near a park’s fountain while adoring each other.
Tip #7: Common
Always look forward to what’s similar to both of you that could really prove that you both are really compatible with each other. Like your childhood habits, the outlook’s in life, plans, or maybe discuss your commonalities.
Tip # 8: Predict !
A light kiss will do at the end of your date, rather than doing French Kiss and scrunching on each other’s lips on a dating status that will put him or her off.
Tip # 9: Chuckle !
Laughter’s the best way to remove nervousness and the gap between the two of you. Laughter is the starter wherein it would put you both to “Comfortably”. Setting a date on a comedy bar or comedy concert is a good idea also.
Tip # 10 : Acknowledge someone’s kindness
Never come off being spoiled towards them. You should always let him/her feel that you appreciate and acknowledge what they’ve done. Be remarkable to him/her that makes you irresistible to her/his date the next time around.